Showing posts with label Haircuts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Haircuts. Show all posts

Friday, May 1, 2009

Chicky Chick & First Crush

First off - thank you so much for your many words of kindness and encouragement regarding the hair cut. Really - you encouraged me and I really appreciate it!!! I've started the little guy on pre-natal vitamins and we're washing with Mane and Tail Shampoo. His hair should be back in no time! Hee hee. Just kidding. 

Yesterday he was cruising past T's side of the garage when a 6 foot folding ladder fell on him. Literally - fell on him. He didn't touch the ladder...it was a weird "freak" accident. I watched it fall, nail him on the head, and then slide over his little body. He didn't move or cry. I thought his neck was broken. He just sat there. As soon as he saw me, he burst into tears...once I saw him move his head, I picked him up and cradled him, and after a few minutes of tears he was just fine. I call that a miracle. Needless to say, it put a (bad) haircut into perspective. (But I still don't like the cut.)



meet Chicky Chick

Chicky Chick fell in the toilet today. In the "just been used" toilet. Way down in the "just been used toilet." I'm still not completely sure how this happened. MW is particularly fond of Chicky Chick.  So I told her, "This is a mother's love." And I stuck my hand down into the toilet - and I couldn't help it - I screamed as I fished her out...and then I ran all the way to the kitchen sink yelling, "oooooo"...and washed my hands with anti-bac soap and bleached Chicky Chick. No sooner had I finished washing my hands than I turned to see T3 scream as he stuck his hands in the toilet...I yelled at him not to, but it was too late. He made a bee line for the kitchen, with both hands in the air, screaming all the way! EEK!



We had friends over for lunch. It was a blast! They brought us this DELICIOUS candle! It's made the few minutes of quiet I've enjoyed this afternoon especially wonderful! Their little girl, Caroline, is cute as cute can be! We spent the afternoon in the playroom talking and letting the kids run wild. By the end of the afternoon, he and Caroline disappeared into one of the dormer window sections of the playroom...and we kept hearing this light "thud." We peaked around the corner to see what the "thud" was. It was Caroline's head hitting the wall each time little man KISSED her!!! Like, he gave her lots and lots and lots of kisses. When I asked him if he had a crush on her, he ran into my arms and buried his head in my neck. I think the little man just might have his first crush! Hmm...



Ok, a little weekend inspiration...this pile of fabric has been hanging out in our living space for weeks now...before that it was tucked away in a closet upstairs...and before that it was in our apt. in married student housing...It's time to USE it! I'm hoping to do some serious sewing over the weekend...GOT-TO-GET-THIS-PROJECT-FINISHED!!!

Happy Weekend!


Thursday, April 30, 2009

Regrets...

I must be on a once a week kick here...oh well.

Ok...since we've been MIA for a week...We got to spend last weekend at Mom's and it was so FUN! The kids got to meet Mary Thomas for the first time ever!!! So special! They kept asking to "pet" her... I asked them if they could believe we were getting ready to have a new baby like that at our house? MW, as she stroked Mary Thomas' cheek, replied with, "I know, but Mama, can't we just have this one?" 


Playing in Bobo's yard...









this happened literally five minutes from the house...

Changing gears...Emily asked a few questions about my camera/photography...No, I'm not a professional photographer (and that question made me smile - thanks!)...though I think that would be a blast! I took a few classes in college. I shoot with a Nikon D70s, and I LOVE my camera!


look what I found...

I'm a little worried about this new baby...little man moved the stool against "my cib" and climbed on in...YIKES! (Bolt the door???)



Little man throwing dirt...





MW is "Princess Pretty Flower."




I know his nose is gross, but I had to include this shot...you'll read why in a sec...


Yesterday I unintentionally made a big mud puddle in the back yard...and the little man jumped in it...shoes, socks, and all...and so I made the mud puddle bigger...and let him play in it all morning!




so much fun!!!!


Ok...and now for the meat of this post...


you know what's coming...

oh...oh...oh...NO.

not a happy camper. (neither was his mama.)


I AM SO SAD. I keep getting teary. And it's really not such a big deal. But I am so sad. 

Yesterday, with my full knowledge and approval, T shaved the little man's head. We're calling it his "once for the summer cut." I know he'll be cooler. Whatever. I can't stand the cut. I CANNOT STAND THE CUT. Just thinking about it makes me get teary. I cried about it last night. I know. It's JUST HAIR. The little guy isn't sick. There's nothing life or death about the matter. It's just his gorgeous, beautiful, "little dude" as one friend put it, hair is G-O-N-E. And I am so sad about it. I regret our decision to shave it (with the longest guard). There's a huge pile of hair in the garbage can outside. I wish I could glue it back. He looks so different. I like the long hair look. I love him, but I do NOT like his hair like this. Great...now I'm crying again. He looks so different. Close friends don't recognize him. He was born with more hair than this. It's never been this short. I don't like it at all. Would it be bad if I was honest and admitted that I HATE this hair cut??? Maybe I'll change, but I think I'm going to be one of those moms who is just fine with boys having longer hair. (Not a pony tail...but longer locks.) I like T's hair longer. I always have. I just like longer hair on guys. I am really sad about this.

There are two things so far that I think back on and feel a stab of pain in my heart over - that stab of pain only a mother feels when she thinks of something she regrets...

1. letting MW stay with grandparents on her third birthday...NEVER AGAIN will I opt out of being with my children on their birthdays. (she didn't have a clue...but I did. - and don't worry - I'm not going to show up on my kids' doorsteps when they're out on their own...just for the 18 years they're under my roof, if I can be there to wake them and celebrate with them - I WILL BE!)

2. letting - make that, being ok - with T shaving the little man's head (until I saw what it was going to look like, but it was too late, then.) (by the way, little man told everyone at school that he hit his head and his hair fell out...)

Silly regrets, I guess. For some reason thinking about them...seeing the little man and his lack of hair... makes my heart ache in a regretful sort of way.



Again. I know. It is only hair. The kid is healthy. Really. It shouldn't be such a big deal. But it is. To me, at least. It's a really big deal.


Ok...wiping away the teary streaks that have stained my cheeks...and heading outside with my children. Wait, is that little boy mine??? Oh...I miss his hair.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Shiny Dots...Hair Cut...and Bruises...


Ok, long post. In short...we're all fine. MS is gone. Kids are great. Life is busy.

I can’t believe it’s been an entire week since I last posted…we’ve been busy little bees around here…last weekend Mama came to town and ironed and made a fabulous pot of homemade chicken soup and a big bowl of homemade chicken salad. Ahhhh…sweetness. She was a HUGE help with the children. T had to work and it was so nice to have the company of another adult, as well as the tremendous help she was! Thanks Mom!

While she was here, MW and I made several little pots of lip gloss. I had some beeswax from an old Martha Stewart kit and after a little research, we were able to procure the few necessary remaining ingredients here at the house. It was loads of fun. We made 8 or so pots and MW had the best time wrapping them and giving them to her friends. We made labels for them and she came up with her own “logo” and “name.” “Shiny Dots Lip Gloss” – handwritten in black ink with cranberry and pink polka dots in a circle around the name. Pretty cute, huh?


Like a crazy woman I gave the little man a haircut. Not sure I should attempt that again. I just about had an out of body experience. He NEVER sits still, even with a sucker in his mouth and one in each hand…it turned out alright. After the last time I cut his hair, I promised myself I’d never do it again, but I called to make him an appt. and never heard back from the girl who cuts our hair and T has faithfully asked me every day if I’ve made that appt. so I just took matters into my own hands. After finishing, I was worried there might be a few pieces that still needed trimming to even things up, but he wouldn’t be still…then it hit me. What am I worried about? No one will notice. He’s NEVER still! Ha!

I've come to one of those realizations I cannot deny…my calling is NOT education…(My hat is off to ALL teachers! You amaze me! I could NEVER do what you do!) I’ve been working with MW on her numbers…and it’s been a humbling experience (for me). There are about four numbers she is struggling with keeping straight. (in terms of identifying the written number.) I’ve made up rhymes and danced around the kitchen…I’ve pointed out these numbers on gas prices and signs, etc. I’ve tried really hard to creatively point them out to her. My mom and sister and a few others have offered "teaching" pointers (because this teaching thing is foreign to me)…and so we’ll do our #6 rhyme and she’ll write the number 6 six times and then I’ll pull out the number six and say, “Which number is this?” And she’ll struggle with identifying that it’s the number six. So as I am feeling the overwhelming desire to bloody my head against a brick wall it suddenly hits me…how many times has my Savior shown me something again and again and again. How many times has He made something abundantly clear…and still, I completely miss it, as if I’ve never been shown before. I stare at it, turn away, and do not remember what I just sat staring at. Yeah, so that whopping bit of conviction, along with the control of the Holy Spirit, has refreshed me in working with her on these numbers. And by the way...she got them all right tonight!

A few nights ago I served our dinner plates…blackened salmon and asparagus…T got a huge grin on his face and said, “you’re back!” Yep, I think I’m back. I am SO HAPPY to be through with the nausea stage!!! HOORAY!!!! So happy about that! I’m cooking again…homemade chicken noodle soup and homemade white chicken chili…I made banana/blueberry bread…and even rice krispy treats (which, you know, require a great deal of culinary effort)… It’s been so wonderful. MW helped me make the chicken noodle soup. We toiled all day long…boiling the chicken, straining the broth, picking the chicken off the bone. She peeled carrots, etc. and at the end of the day I was serving bowls and she said, “I thought we were having the kind of chicken noodle soup we eat when we go camping.” To which I replied, “You mean Ramen noodle soup?” To which she answered, “Yes ma’am.” So T and I enjoyed homemade chicken noodle soup and my little angels happily devoured a pot of ramen noodles. Oh well…it’s the simple things in life, huh?


In other news…”sassy spray” (my soap and water concoction) is NOT working. I found little man sucking the soapy water out of the bottle…so I’ve resorted to putting him in the pack n play, by himself, until he stops whining…at which time I go and get him out…he spent a lot of the afternoon in the pack n play.


MW, T3, and I were in the den hanging out. T3 ran for the kitchen. I could hear him scooting a chair…I found this…GUILTY. It took me a sec to grab the camera. When I first walked in he was on top of the counter from the waist up…turning on the water. Before I nabbed him, he managed to put his metal globe keychain down the drain...into the disposal. Genius.


More little man news…he looks kind of battered…he came home with the scratch on his right cheek, which is now a lovely scar, from MDO. Tuesday, he fell out of an infant swing, again, at MDO, and landed face first…or rather, cheek first…first it looked like a bad carpet burn, and now it’s more of a big bruise and a slight black eye…poor guy. Last week he fell head first from about half way down the steps and miraculously, was fine. Oh yeah, that was probably because the foam pads from MW's "anywhere" chair were stacked at the bottom of the steps...Oh, did I mention that I was beside him when this happened. Great job monitoring - huh?


He and MW “sailed” north to Memphis, but they had to “hurry home because we don’t have any mittens and we will freeze if we don’t get home soon.” That's their dog (behind MW) named Peeka, because she likes to play "peeka-boo."


And here we have MW…as an ant (hence the monkey grass taped to her forehead)…playing “paper, rock, scissors: and …



Here as a “teenager.” You can’t see it in the picture, but she had her Disney “digital camera” with her…”cause teenagers carry cameras.” Note the eye makeup. Lovely. Lovely.



Little man got his hands on some hand me downs...I know T will love this pic! At least he's wearing his train conductor hat.





If you’re still reading…wow. I am impressed. Have a happy night.